This International Women’s Day, we at Staying Put celebrate the strength and achievements of women everywhere while holding space for those whose struggles are often hidden: women living through war, displacement, systemic oppression and domestic abuse and or sexual violence. Every woman’s story is a testament to resilience, courage and honouring these stories begins with true compassion, listening with open hearts, validating pain without judgment and offering care that heals rather than harms.
The theme for this year, “Give to Gain,” shines a powerful light on survivors who, despite unimaginable pain, give back by supporting others and shaping services that truly meet their needs. Their generosity and bravery inspire us all.
We stand in deep gratitude for all survivors and the tireless, compassionate colleagues working in the domestic abuse and sexual violence sector, especially my incredible colleagues at Staying Put. Your unwavering commitment transforms lives, fuels hope and builds communities where healing can begin.
Using trauma informed language is not just a choice but a responsibility. Words carry the power to harm or heal. For women affected by conflict, violence or marginalisation, language that acknowledges their pain without blame preserves dignity and creates safe spaces. Even in everyday moments, empathy in our speech fosters environments where women feel truly seen, respected and supported.
Humility calls us to recognise the limits of our understanding and to step back with respect. It invites us to listen deeply and to create space for women to lead conversations about their lives, their needs and their futures.
This International Women’s Day, let us act with intention, amplify silenced voices, support survivors, challenge injustice and build systems grounded in compassion, trauma informed care and humility. Together we must forge a future where every woman’s voice is not only heard but fiercely respected, her worth unequivocally recognised and her power fully realised.
Yasmin Khan – CEO Staying Put
“The day I rang for help [was] the day I realised it was time for me to leave…The day I was accepted [to refuge] I had my full life in four bin bags and some toys I managed to grab.”
Kayleigh.

