When Candy* (name changed) was allocated to Staying Put’s ISVA team in April 2023, she was seeking specialist support to help her navigate the daunting Criminal Justice process. The alleged perpetrator had already been charged with four counts of rape and coercive control. As the trial approached, Candy expressed understandable anxiety about giving evidence and attending court.
From the outset, Staying Put tailored their support to Candy’s individual needs, acknowledging both the trauma she had experienced and the importance of providing a service where she felt safe, respected, and understood. As someone who identifies as a lesbian, Candy valued the inclusive, identity-affirming approach offered by the ISVA team.
Over the next two years, Candy received consistent and compassionate support. Her allocated ISVA provided emotional support and safeguarding advice through regular face-to-face visits, often at her home where she lived with her partner. Recognising the importance of inclusive practice, her ISVA ensured her partner was welcomed and informed when appropriate, helping to reinforce a sense of safety and solidarity in her personal life.
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Candy was signposted to counselling services, support for anger management, housing options, and the Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority (CICA). She was also supported throughout the legal process—accompanied to the police station to review her Video Recorded Interview, and guided through a pre-trial visit, during which she experienced severe panic. On that day, her ISVA remained present, offering grounding techniques and advocating for special measures to help reduce her distress at trial.
As the court date approached, additional support was provided, including preparation for her Section 28 hearing and advice on her Victim Impact Statement. Her ISVA also attended the verdict hearing with Candy’s mother, ensuring that both received the outcome in a trauma-informed and supportive way.
On June 24th, 2025, the alleged perpetrator was found guilty of multiple counts of rape and coercive control following a five-day trial involving three complainants. Sentencing is scheduled for September 2025, and Candy has been offered continued support should she choose to attend.
Candy shared that regular contact over the two-year period helped her remain focused and less alone during the long, emotionally draining wait for justice. She felt the service had adapted to her specific needs and circumstances, and that the support she received reflected a deep understanding of the importance of inclusive and affirming advocacy.
At Staying Put, we recognise that survivors come from diverse backgrounds and lived experiences. We understand that identity, relationships, and past experiences can shape how someone engages with support. We are committed to providing a responsive and inclusive service that adapts to each individual ensuring they feel seen, heard, and empowered at every stage of their journey.
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